I don\u2019t have many known enemies, an enemy being one \u201cwho is actively opposed or hostile to someone.\u201d As a matter of fact, I may have more unknown enemies than known ones. Part of the reason may be because I basically like people \u2013 even those with whom I disagree. I find it easier to accept one with whom I disagree, than to reject someone because of a disagreement. Thus, I have friends with whom I disagree, and obviously friends who disagree with me. I try hard not to allow hatred into a relationship. Admittedly, they do bother me, irritate me, disturb me \u2013 these friends who could easily become enemies \u2013 and while I confess to hating some of the things they do or say, I am determined not to let them have any control over my life. Dale Carnegie was an American writer and lecturer and the developer of famous courses in self-improvement. His words are appropriate here: \u201cWhen we hate our enemies, we are giving them power over us: power over our sleep, our appetites, our blood pressure, our health, and our happiness. Our enemies would dance with joy if only they knew how they were worrying us, lacerating us, and getting even with us! Our hate is not hurting them at all, but our hate is turning our own days and nights into a hellish turmoil.\u201d Long before Carnegie, Jesus said to His disciples, \u201cYou have heard that it was said, \u2018You shall love your neighbor and hate your enemy.\u2019 But I say to you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who spitefully use you and persecute you.\u201d (Matthew 5:43-44). If you have a known enemy, try praying for them this week.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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