One of the ways I am processing the unexpected death of my brother is by remembering the fun times of our youth. The memory verse at one year\u2019s Vacation Bible School was Ephesians 4:32, \u201cBe ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ’s sake hath forgiven you (KJV),\u201d and Bob had committed it to memory from the King James Version of the Bible \u2013 which is mostly what we had back then. There were a few other translations, but our Southern Baptist leaders assured us that all the others were liberal. Being ten years older, I became very good at harassing Bob. In fact, I \u201cbullied\u201d him (in an older brother kind of way) before bullying was so much in the news. Following this VBS experience, Bob had a come-back for all my bullying attempts. On every occasion, Bob would respond with, \u201cBe ye kind!\u201d Obviously, his new favorite verse, was not very popular with me. A more mature look at the verse shows me that there are three things Paul wants his readers to \u201cbe.\u201d We are to be \u201ckind\u201d or gentle. One of those \u201cliberal\u201d translations calls this benign courtesy. We are to be \u201ctenderhearted\u201d or compassionate, feeling warm sympathy toward others, especially if they have been hurt in some way. Finally, we are to be \u201cforgiving,\u201d which is the natural result of being \u201ckind\u201d and \u201ctenderhearted.\u201d As if this were not enough, Paul then holds up Christ as the example for this kind of attitude and action. Without knowing it, Bob had discovered an antidote for bullying, a lesson it would take me a few years to learn. Try kindness this week.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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